What makes people have a bad temper? Is it genetics or just?
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Genetics has nothing to do with an individual's bad temper because this is a learned behavior which a person deliberately chooses to display. He or she has a deep and often hidden sense of insecurity that desperately craves attention. A bad temper is merely an act of defiance resulting from a lack of maturity, wisdom and self-discipline.
I will wager that each of the people you know that has a bad temper..is a liar. Somewhere in their soul they are hidding something, or protecting something.. usually it is the phone front they put up.. they do not want people to know who they really are or they don't know who they really are themselves.. they live a lie, they project a lie and are constantly trying to support the lie.. their insecurity shows up when things don't go to suit them or they are challanged by someone.. They spend their life being angry and though most of them may be somewhat passive agressive they still become angry over little things and they begin to build.. finally they have to blow.. all it takes is a triggering mechanism... it is not genetic.. it is just plain psychological short commings.. they have no patience and a short interest span about things unless it is about something that they can express their knowledge on... they can also have an addictive personality..
some from their parents some from their life some from they want every thing some for make people thing they bad like that every 1 has reason but who can think solve his problem not with the temper
I'm going to disagree with that person who says it means you're insecure, blah blah blah...
I have a bad temper, however you'll rarely see it. VERY rarely. I can feel it coming on though, and my mom has a horrible temper. Maybe it's because we're Sicilian? Ha ha. One time I was ready to go to the gym on my lunch break, and I realized that I didn't bring my shirt. I though I could buy one at the gym - so I walked there ready to work out, and when they said they didn't sell them. I just about flipped out. I could feel myself wanting to punch a hole through a wall. But I just stayed calm and left, muttering profanities under my breath after I got out of ear shot.
I think a couple people are confusing "bad temper" with people who are just really messed up.
A bad temper represents impatience.
It doesn't have anything to do with genetics. Sure, in some cases, it might be a learned behavior, but I think with most, it's probably just a lack of patience and a lack of tolerance.
I doubt it's genetics; in the Nature Vs Nurture scheme of things a Bad Temper is a learned response to the 'things and or people are not meeting my expectations' game or situation.
Most of us have buttons that can be pushed in the right sequence that start our passionate fires.
Most of us can control the intensity of the passion.
Some fires go out of control, some are easily managed, some create death and destruction but many create new life especially in the Australian Bush where fires are needed to start germination of seeds.
And so it is with we sentient beings - a loss of temper can result in the end of a relationship and the start of a new one.
A person who has no passion, whose buttons can't be pushed, is a cold-hearted person, a psychopath, and is as disinteresting as one who loses his temper to the uncontrolled stage of destruction.
I used to think that people start yelling and screaming if only deep inside they feel helpless and insecure. My friend has a bad temper - it's a challenge to go to a restaurant with her cause she is rude very often. I think that she is like that because she did not let go of a lot of anger she had in relation to her mom and some hurtful events in her life. Basically, it has nothing to do with genetics, but people learn to behave, based on how they are treated (from their parents mostly). If people want to change, then they can take control of it, becoming self-aware of anger issues they have.Good question.
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