I'm a very shy, have low self-esteem and not confident at all.I need a bak 2 skool makeover help!!?
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DROPPING OUT! Kid are you crazy?
Sorry that was kind of rude but look. You should be proud of who you are and have some confidence and self-esteem but you say your going to hs and I feel some remorse for you.
Highschool can be tough, everyone looks pretty, everyones trying to fit in, yeah we get it. If your not comfortable enough to be at school we have a problem. You shouldn't not come to school because your ashamed of yourself. Straighten up kid. If your wondering why you don't have much friends, umm maybe its because your not around. People do judge based on appearance, yeah its kind of human instinct so i'll be helpful.. as helpful as I can, but let me tell you, if your trying to be popular that is just dumb.
You know it's your personality that matters the most. Not everyone in your school is a stuck up, shallow person, and people will see you for who you are, so remember that.
Now on to your makeover? Your asking what you can do, I'm simply answering.
Hair for 1) I find that to be huge! Hair can make the greatest impact ever, take it from me trust me I DO KNOW. How do you want your hair? A new cut, some layers, some colors, curls? or perhaps relax it straight? Whatever you want.
2) Eyebrows actually do play a bigger role then you might think. Idk if you do yours, but get them done.
3) Your wardrobe says a lot about you. You can dress fashionably without being broke. Put things together and make a nice outfit. Being in hs you probbaly worry too much about what stores do I have to shop at and blah. The fact is it doesn't matter as long as you can make something nice out of it.
4) Well honestly if your just thinking about how to change yourself physically I think thats enough for now. Remember though, looks aren't everything.
Hope that helps =]
get a boobs job
it's ok just by making one friend you'll end up making more just take a chance be brave gurl i know you can do it i beleive in you! if you are gurly buy more accesories to help you just remember dont change your life just cause of this!
sincerely Miss Anonymous!*
First off, you have to feel confident. Look in the mirror and tell yourself you look pretty. Start to believe it. Think about your best physical feature or talent. Go shopping. Pamper yourself (dye your hair,get nails done,toes done,ect.)
dont listen to AHboy. i think that little by little, you should talk aloud in class more often. asct like you would at home. just think to yourself-if al the other kids can be confidnet, why cant i? also, try getting a new hair style. not super short, but maybe try growing it out. and get a whole new wardrobe and maybe even try some makeup. also, for friends, just make sure you are nice to everybody u meet. make a good first impression. smile and be yourself. try to make your circle of friends bigger and bigger everyday! good luck and i hope this advice helped :)
-tessa
Changing what you look like won't make a scrap of difference in the long term, it's what's inside that is making you lack confidence. Stop trying to base your life on what other people think of you and then your confidence will grow and when it comes to being shy, who are you shy around? Are you shy around people you really enjoy being around or are you just shy with popular loser show ponies?
Try not being so quiet all the time. Chances are that the girls/guys may think you are a little strange because you don't socialize. One day when you have a boost of confidence, go up to someone and compliment there hair or necklace or something. You might just start a conversation. When you go back this year, try to change the things that people don't like about you. If it's appearance, I would try reading magazines and reading about hair and make up for the season. Look for the new fashion statements too so you don't go back wearing last years clothes.
Hi Rosie...
Wow, congrats on wanting to address this issue. When I hear that you have missed over 60 days, I'm wondering if you are seriously depressed from the low self esteem? Missing that many days just shouts that you are trying to avoid painful situations in order survive. I'm also wondering if you have issues with a learning disability...if you haven't been tested for one, it might be helpful to ask your folks if they can request testing for you.
As for changing your looks, start to get comfortable with your self first. Start turning your mind so that you think positive about yourself, believe in yourself.
As for the make over physically, there are many places that could hook you up with a makeover. Many malls will do free make up advice, get a new hairstyle, and for the clothes, if you are in a lower socio-econmic class (ie folks are poor) hit some resale shops, garage sales, outlet stores, Steve and Barry's for some inexpensive stylish clothing.
As making friends, what skills do you have? Are you a talented artist, are you talent with acting, are there any clubs you can join? The more you are involved the more you can connect with others so that friendships can start.
*Though* if you don't work on the inside issues, nothing will change.
I say change from within ... work on talking to yourself in the mirror to build your confidence with talking with others. Join a couple of school clubs ... I gaurentee you'll make friends and your grades will improve. Make yourself be social ... I am brave, I am cool, I rule the school :) make this your mantra(a repeated phrase that shall guide your day) say it in the mirror and think it wherever you go. Take a look at this book: How to make friends and influence people. It will change your life. Get involved at school... join a club or two or three ... find one you like doing something you might enjoy ... drama - comunity sevice programs - a sport :) they will rebuild you a stronger happier person with friends.
wow, i have the same problem, but itz not that bad. When you got to school, don't worry about what other people think. If you see something that is wrong with someone, like if there tag is sticking up, go up to them and tell them and then laugh about and tell them it happens to you all the time...find things to talk about ( i should be telling myself this). if u really want 2 change ur look, you can shop at citi trends...they have cheap clothes there...but u shouldn't change ur look 2 get attention...itz ur choice though. u should wear like a fitted shirt and then some flat shoes and maybe even some tights with a skirt over it...whatever
this is all i can tell you
well first, treat yourself to a fresh haircut, one that makes you look cute/ sexy whatever (I'm going to be a junior too ^.^)
go to some salon for this.. ( no hair cuts from mom will give you high self esteem )
go into any store that has make up (that you know how to wear, yes?)
and buy some light shades, some eye liner, some mascara...ect whatever you can afford. then go home sit in front of the mirror with a curler in hand and hair straightener, brush, whatever.. play with your hair, try things out that you would do at school...
go into your closet and mix match clothing,
go shopping (if you can afford it, otherwise take up sewing and revising clothes you have)
and just create a happy high self esteemed you,
people love confidant (nice ) people
first thing to know is
(even if you don't do any of the above things, for financial or whatever reasons) people love people that love temselves,
if you don't respect yourself no one will feel that they will need to and that can lead to some serious problems...
good luck & god bless
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