How do you over come hurt feelings from a selfish person?

Once a person has learn the world does not revolve around them..and becomes more aware of others needs instead of thier own in a healthy assertive way of course...( I am not talking about co- dependancy or overly passive behavior)..how would that person teach this virtue to someone (who is close to them.. but is very selfish) and teach with no gile or ill feelings toward that person and in the process not get their feelings hurt?

Answer:
there is a good read on this subject "the virtue of selfishness" by Ayn Rand.. you can read the reviews about it at amazon.. Being selfish is not a bad thing unless you start hurting people, then its gonna come back.. Most of the successful people were selfish which help them grow and when they reach to some place and then they donated all their money to some worthy cause. They were all positive selfish kinds..

all said, I would tell him how hes causing pain by his behavior and if he cares he has to think over this matter or the price would be a lost relationship.. no more talks his actions will tell if he got the message
terrible!!

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