Self Help has so many contradictions? Can you just be.?
Contradictions like, "Have confidence" and "confidence is detrimental when its too high"
"Love yourself"..."Don't focus on yourself it will make you unhappy"
AARGGHHHHHHHH I'm just gonna turn to God!
Answer:
i agree with mike, pace yourself, don't try to do everything all at once.
first find the things you like to do and enjoying doing, try to balance the scales a little the other direction, maybe try or attempt something that you are not so confident in or with.
a bit of selfishness is a great hing to have, so that from time time you can say No its my time go away
focusing on self is a good thing, re your appearance, hair ,makeup and such when you feel good about you the world follows
Moderation is the key. Like yourself is good, but you don't have to boast all day long. Get friends, get hobbies, get an education, get a career, get a family. Get whatever makes you happy in life, but don't walk on others. Other people have feelings and ambitions just like you.
Damn I'm smart..and modest, and funny..LOL
MIKE
Don't listen to them,listen to me,aim for as high as you can reach,worry about yourself,not others.
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