What's wrong with me?
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Try starting a "Friends of the library" if the library does not already offer the group.
Face the facts, you have a small dating pool in a small town. If you have a temperament that is hard to find a match for friends or mates... all you can do is leave.
I am sorry.
you are stuck in a small town and maybe you want to move to bigger places
there is nothing wrong with you, you sound normal to me
since ur town has nothing to offer u maybe it's time for u to relocate.
go to church, travel this summer, visit family in other states or something. it sounds like your stuck in a small town where everyone is exactly the same for like their whole lives! i know how that is. you must explore other cities! get out of that town or you will end up the same as those people!!!
Are you in school or do you work? What do you do with yourself all day? Have you thought about volunteering your time somewhere? There are lots of places to volunteer where you'd meet people one on one. You could try your local hospital for starters. Take up a sport and enter competitions. You could take up bicycling or tennis or swimming.
go to college. it will get you out of that town and into a place where there are things to do and people to meet who aren't thinking about a family at such a young age. live in the dorms and meet new friends.
even if you don't go to school, just move somewhere else that has people like you (which would be pretty much any medium to big city)
first off everyone feels like that life is pretty much all crap and there are some moments that make it more bearable. it sounds to me like you need a change of scenery, maybe find a college or get an out of town job in a bigger city.
if there is nothing holding you back then maybe you should go for it
you only have so long in this life and no day is a guarantee find what ever it is out there that makes you happy and when you realize what it is don't look back and follow your dreams. if you don't you'll be looking at yourself 25 years from now in the same little dead end town regretting that you didn't find out what your passion was and went for it
don't make that mistake man follow your dreams no one can do it for you!
Have you thought about going to college? That's the best way to meet people your age with intellectual interests! Even taking one class at a community college while you are working can open up new worlds for you.
If there is anything wrong with being sensible and intelligent..then you are screwed up my friendLOL. Small towns are hard to cope with.Enjoy nature.Study something you are passionate about..Read the Bible..Acquire freinds who share your interests and won't bring you down. The choices you make now are the ones that will affect your life forever. You sound like your making good ones..So quit harpin' on yourself and enjoy being nineteen...It only happens once. God Bless.
I think that either you start something going in the way of a bookclub or reading interest group OR you move to some city with a vibrant cultural scene. If social interaction is what's more important to you, you could have the club meet twice a month or something...
First of all, why do you ask, "what's wrong with me?" I don't understand why you think something is wrong with you because you live in a small town and are bored. That sounds perfectly normal to me. If I were in a small town at 19, I'd go stir crazy. Why don't you go to college in a large town or city, or find a job in another town. There are a lot of singles travel groups that you could hook up with and go see the world with other singles. Try "prosinthecity.com" or google search singles groups/travel. I joined the military 18 years ago to get out of my home town and have since lived in 12 different states and been to all but 5. I've been to 7 foreign countries and multiple islands. I've had a BLAST! Don't sell yourself short and by all means do NOT get married at 19. I'll bet you 2/3 of your friends will be divorced within 7 years. Focus on a career and fun now.
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