Flattery or Insult?

A man tells a female friend he knew he was gay since he was a teenager and never once was attracted to a woman. At a later time he then asks the same female if she would go out on a date with him. Can she assume he is implying she looks masculine?

Answer:
No it means she's so hot she turned him hetro.

No, he just wants to go out and have fun I reckon. It's a girl's night out.
i don't think there is enough information to make that assumption.

for instance, he might have decided he was bisexual.
No I don't believe that is the case at all.

Why is he asking her out however? Is her attracted to her? Maybe he isn't as gay as he thought. Likely he's bi. Most gay men are both.
Only if she's trying to be insulted. Why not ask him, right out? "That's flattering that you'd like to go out with me, but I'm a little confused...I thought you batted for the other team."

Then listen with your heart to what he tells you.
Well it's possible. I mean, she might give him a chance since he is her friend, or she might take it as an insult. It kinda depends on how close of friends they are.
Maybe he feels comfortable with you now that he's told you about his sexuality.The only way to find the reason ,is to ask him.
NO,,,i think maybe he wants people to think he isnt gay,,or just likes her companionship.
i don't think so -
nope. she will think that he needs a friend to accompany him.
No he probably felt safe with this person
i doubt thats the case. if hes into men-hes into men. not a woman that looks like a man. he just wants a friend to accompany him.
Sounds like he's playing her and can't be trusted.
She can assume anything she chooses. I knew a gay man in a committed relationship. As you know there are places where gays are not welcome. When he needed a date for business reasons to meet with a couple he would ask me to go with him. We went on a lot of innocent dates and everyone had a blast. It was flattering because he was a very handsome hunk. Alas, it was not meant to be and it was better that way. But I'd do it all over again because he was a great friend.
No, he wants to feel normalcy.
no. assume that he might want to spend time as a friend. assume that maybe she might be in touch with herself (i.e. her masculine side, her anime, not her body) a bit more than some other women. assume that he wants to have friends of the opposite sex to round out and balance his anima.
assume that he enjoys the companion of a woman at times. flattery, okay.

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