Is it possible to have been hugged too much as a child?
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I don't know but it sounds like you feel like your boundaries were violated and you're trying to assert them...were you also overprotected in other ways? Sounds like you feel like resisting hugs is a way of asserting your own space.
I used to feel like that, but now I think of it like this: we are all human and we crave closeness...I don't see any harm in being hugged...unless it's by someone who specifically wants to violate boundaries or assert power. I think we don't like hugs when we don't want someone to share with us. If we're comfortable with the person being close emotionally, we're comfortable with them physically, I think. It's probably a trust issue.
Can i have a hug?
Nothing wring with not wanting too be touched. People just like you, probably because you are cute. Looking at your pic I can tell you have a good face, so people want to get close to you.
Next time, just back away from the person, you don't have to be polite and take the hug if you don't want it.
I think people can be hugged too much. It doesn't happen often though. I guess in your case it did.
WELL SOMETHING TO DO TO AVOID IS WHEN U SEE SOMEONE ABOUT TO HUG U PRETEND TO LOOK AROUND AND LOOK AT UR WATCH OR SOMETHIN AND SAY BETTER GO OR SOMETHIN LIKE A THAT.
i dont think ou could have been hugged too much that would be a ton of hugs. But some people hate to be hugged because of some disease. I think it has something to do with hating germs
i dont think that people can be hugged enough!! ;)
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