Why some people try desesperatly to convince you that you are this or that you think that ?
and they dont listen to what you say
its so. they are trying to make it seem as things are not as they are
like they want to create an illusion about what you are what you think... when its not the truth at all!
i dont understand why they do this?
feels like being in a theatre
but sometimes it doesnt feel ok to me..makes me a little
pissed,..
Thanks!
Answer:
If you are talking about someone creating a false personality in you and treating you as if you're that guy, no matter what you do then you're dealing with a facet of a controlling personality. They create a false (predictable) character; one that thinks and acts in ways they understand. Whatever you do, you cannot dislodge it because their sense of security rides on keeping you with in the framework of their capacity. If someone talks to you in a way that shows they're talking to a fictional person, don't respond to it, don't even acknowledge that it happened. The more you try, the more it reinforces it. It's also best, once you meet a character like this, to not try and tell them your motives for anything. Don't be open, they'll jam it inside their paradigm of you.
It's plain old arrogance to think that you completely understand someone.
Because people associate a name for the disease or problem, that way they are familar with it.
Once a symptom gets a name, it's stereotyped.
People like that enjoy trying as hard as they can to get you to agree with them & change your point of view because of something they said or did. I guess it gives them an ego boost to be able to convince someone to change their mind. Yes, it would piss me off, too. I am very clear about my beliefs and once I've made up my mind about something, it's almost impossible to get me to change it. You should just laugh at these people when they start trying to convince you of something. I'm sure you have shown them that you are standing your ground and following your own beliefs. I hope so anyway.
Live in the truth. Learn to say "that is incorrect" or "that is false".
If a person has done something to another directly and refuses to take responsibility for those actions both of those statements would be incorrect or falsely used and based on dishonesty - out of line/inappropriate/a lie. ~~~~~Life works when truth is present.
If a third party is sought for help and that third party is into instigation than right back to reconciliation within or concerning family someone should go~~~otherwise they will become burnt toast while paying for it.
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