Every time my lil sister goes out/has some errands to do, I'm frightened it's the last time i see her. what..?

.what to do and how can i ease my mind?

on one hand i feel i'm ridiculously cautious, on the other hand - bad things happen all the time. and she' s the person i love the most in this world; i don't want anything bad to happen to her: and if something did happen to her in the past, her pain hurt me just as much...
i heared someone once say that pesimists are always afraid of loosing what/who they love..but still, i have to deal with this anguish: maybe ur thoughts will help me . so thank you for anything u would have to say..
(i'm 21, she's 19 but that doesn't matter )

Answer:
Don't worry. Your thoughts won't change things.
wow I feel the same connection with my 5 siblings. If I lose any one of them, I feel I would die inside and just be a living zombie suppressing all emotion to defend myself.

But I can't worry for them all the time. They are living life and I'm happy that they are.

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