How do i deal with this?
im very good at soccer , card games and i can win everytime but im afraid of wining because i fell that the people become upset when i do or hate me for wining and i feel like guilty or something for being a winner .
i know this isnt the right feeling but i just need somebody to explain this to me and how and what i should do .
i mean i can win should i do it or not i feel great being a winner.
thx
Answer:
you can't help it if u have skills... trust me, your friends will feel worse you u lose on purpose 2 make them feel good... they have 2 appreciate the fact that u r talented and skilled in those areas!
Well, I guess it depends on the situation.
If you're winning a lot, and you're getting carried away with the bragging - people can start to get sensitive about it.
They will feel badly, then that turns into being annoyed when it happens repetitively. But if you're not acting that way, and people still have an issue, then maybe you need to play games with people that will present more of a challenge to you! Expand your circle a bit. I don't think that you should lose on purpose...unless of course you're an adult and you're playing against children.
(Sometimes, ya gotta kinda let 'em win).
then you go over to them and go "hey good game". offer some pointers as a strategy wise.
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