My life is garbage?
..actually i wasn't crazy, i was just acting weird bc my closest aunt was diagnosed with term c.a...
..after we broke up, she passed away and another close relative passed suddenly(within a week..)
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....last month i lost my job
..my brother, was very ill and had to be in the hospital for 2 weeks, he almost died..
everyone thinks i'm ok.. but i'm really going through alot. i'm a human being, with feelings.. this is so hard
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i feel for you.I am going thru a horrible break up now with someone I have dated on and off for almost 6 years. And have had many health problems come up myself recently. It seems like when it rains it pours.but everything happens for a reason and hold your head up high, but most importantly love yourself.
And I know none of it is easy to do..it takes time and everything does get better with time.
I wish you nothing but the best and hope things start getting brighter for you soon!!
Also..guys will never understand, lol...don't let anything he said get you down!!
Sure it's hard BUT remember, what you think about you bring about.If you think youare crazy then you will end up behaving that way.If it's ok for other people to think that way because they will NEVER control your life unless you allow them.Stand your ground and move on.
Best wishes
talk to friends... go out and have fun... keep yourself busy... you will make it through all this :)
im really sorry about what happened to you... a lot of people go thru pain... and im not gonna tell you that it doesnt hurt, cuz it does... but once you get over the pain, you'll realize that your life isnt garbage... and i kno how hard it is to lose someome you love, but remember they are always in your heart, and i kno its hard, bcuz you wanna see them, and touch them, how you used to, but just remember, they are always in your heart, and they wldve wanted for you to be Happy!
Is there a question here somewhere that I am just missing?
First off, I'm sorry for all your problems. You have my sympathy. yes, you've had a rather bad streak, but, you need to do something. If you want to wallow in self pity *and I've done that and it sucks* then so be it.
you have to choices.. Live with it or Live w/o it. How you do that is up to you. B/F breaking up with you.. I hate to put it this way, but, BIG DEAL. If he were any kind of man, he'd have stuck by you during the tough times. Losing your job is not fun, but, you need to find another one. I've always been told when one door closes, another one opens. You just have to be ready..
Again, my sympathys and condolences... You can and will make it.
One more thing, Counseling. You need to talk it out. It will make it easier... Promise
I'm sorry. I think everyone goes through this in life...i had well over a year that just completely sucked! But, I came through it, and am happy now. I hope you get through it...don't try to live up to other people's expectations of being "ok" just try to find something that helps you feel better...whatever it is. Try not to get too discouraged, or focus completely on the bad.find something good in your life and focus on that for now. It can't last forever, is all I can really say.
These things shall pass. "What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger".
Surround yourself with family and friends that are not judgmental.
Do not read the news and try to be supportive of your brother and appreciate the simple things in life.
Money is not everything, but good mental health is.
Boyfriends come and go, but never a family.
I wish you the best !!
you need to grieve...you need to grieve...you need to grieve. It IS ok to have feelings of sadness when you have gone through what you have. When ppl ask you if you are Ok, is is OK to say "im a lil sad." you dont have to explain why or share your whole life story w/them. But be honest. Cry. Let it out. And find someone near you that you can just let it all out too, that will truly listen. If you dont have someone, find a counselor. You need to let it out. Every neuron in your body develops a feeling and waste. That waste is building up in your body and you need to let it out (crying, etc). When you dont, you get sick (physically/emotionally). LET IT OUT!! Start by going in your room, grabbing a pillow, and screaming and crying into as long and as loud as you can. Then start being honest w/ppl about how you feel.
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