If someone is emotionally abusing you, taking advantage of your kindness, spying on you and trying 2 control?
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yes,i think you are right,your parents sholud protect you as a child,but,who will take care on you from now on?
My wife. Booze helps.
You don't say how old you are. Parents are supposed to control their kids, but abuse is another story. If you're being abused, talk to a teacher and get some help.
Number One comes first. That's you, and your health. You need some distance. Be tactful.
no matter who it is you dont need the pain !
if they truly loved and respected you then they wouldnt do any thing to hurt you !! even parents !!
cut them out and live your life in peace and dont let anyone ever make you feel that way again !
(((HUGS)))
Emotional abuse is real and I don't think they make band-aids big enough to cover the hurt that can be caused.
Yep, gotta do it. There can be horrible enmeshment when you keep a thought in mind that somehow that person will change and become the person you want them to be but it rarely happens. It would likely be you that became better and they would try to make you feel bad about that. It is okay to eliminate negative influences from your life. In fact it is often necessary. Don't feel bad about it.
I think you already really know the answer to this. YES! You should stay away from this person and cut the other parent out of your life also. Sometimes people don't deserve children. You need to get on with your life. Good luck, you deserve a great new life.
you can't be in an abusive relationship even if it is with a parent. abuse is not something that should be taken lightly. it's okay to cut the abuse out of your life. as for your other parent... put it this way, if you're getting abused chances are that parent is too. you can try talking to that parent. letting them know where you stand and also, find out where they stand. seek help. (childabuse.org)
Parents are supposed to protect and care for their children, teach them right from wrong. They could probably be applying inffectively way in dealing with their children and children being sensitive could miscontrue the good intentions of their parents.
Reflect on the reasons why your parents treat you this way. If you know that their actions are being irregardlss of your well being then have a heart to heart talk with them. If they truly love you, they will be concern of the results of their action and change a different approach towards you and respect your feelings. Talk with them...
I am a mother and have a 19 yo son. This happened to me without my awareness and my son still remembers the hurt that he experienced. I had no idea at all my approach was wrong... he didnt tell me then but kept on being rebellious and defiance. It make the situation worse. Now I just hope that he will realise my good intention when he is more matured. Despite of that we have a good mother son relationship, although we are thousand of miles away from each other.
I am regretful of my the mistake that i used the wrong approach on him. The consolation part is he realised that i hv instilled good life values and hv taught him compassion and respect is very important qualities that one must have to make this world a much better place for everyone. My children are my world and I just want them to be good people.
Yes, cut them out. Keep your distance from both of them while you seek therapy. Once in therapy, work with your therapist to set boundaries for both parents that fit your comfort level.
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