He is coming home...WHY am I Nervous?
I am so excited... I have cried so many tears for him and now tears of joy. I am picking him up at the airport after work...
I am so nervous... WHY? I am Happy. I am so nervous that I am shaking and vomiting and I can't concentrate at work, Help me ... What can I do to calm down? Am I over excited?
Is this normal?
Answer:
You are just soo excited! Your nerves are getting the better of you.have a warm cup of tea, breath slow and deep...I am so happy for you!! That is awesome...enjoy the day thinking about how much fun you will have, and how nice it will be to have him home again!
because you missed him so much, and ur exited to see him :P
maybe you wonder if he has changed since he has been a troop.
aww hun cuz your excited to see him^-^
and you should be
your probably also nervous because he might have changed alot and your gonna have to start over
You'll be fine. You're just nervous. Just be happy he's actually come home in your arms and not in a casket.
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I think you are nervous because you're afraid he has changed. After being away for so long, from a terrible place, you dont know how he has changed. You're afraid he could suffer from post traumatic stress syndrome
Probably, you done something bad and you afraid that he might find out.
You are nervous because you don't know if he will still see the same things he saw in you before he left...I promise that he is just as nervous. Same thing happened to me when I came back. You basically have to start the relationship over. Have patience and be understanding.
I know what you are going through... you are nervous because you have spent all this time without him and you got used to it.
I promise you things will be fine when you see him again. when you see him it will be like you were never with out him!
Ofcourse it's so very normal to be excited. You miss him, and you are one of the lucky ones that gets to have her man home. If you didn't show signs of excitement, that would mean you didn't care about him. But, you do. So, turn on some relaxing, romantic music, and light some candles. Enjoy.
Of course it is normal. Reconnecting with your man is a difficult thing. Especially one that is in the service...they live a very different life than the rest of us. See things most people should not have to see. It is almost like starting over again. I wish you both luck. Thank him for serving in our military. I have a son in the Army. It is something to be proud of.
I've had a couple of friends go through the same things when their men came back from being overseas. It could partially be because you've set a routine for yourself and it will be changed (even though it's a good change since you'll be with him). There could also be the concern that he's not the same as he was when he left.
More than anything, though... it's probably just that you're THAT excited about it. Once he gets back and you get out of the crush of people greeting his unit, you'll have the chance to calm down... and heat things up! ;)
The army and all military branches offer a re-uniting with your spose workshop at your family care center. I'd recommend it even if you're taking it a little late. It'll help you with your nerves and tell you what to expect, because reuniting with your spose after that much time comes with a lot of different axieties and obstacles.
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