I am pessimistic about my life, but very optimistic for others. Why? Am I being a hypocrite?

They say you can't be positive for others, when you aren't positive for your own self. But I AM positive for others, even though I am not for my own self.

Answer:
i agree with klonnqq.
my contribution is that u kno urself,inside out,at least u think u do.u think u kno ur fears,potential,flaws and highlights.for this reason,it's easier to watch others and wish them well.u may think u have an idea of their lives but not necessarily.ur "advantage" is that u DONT kno their fears,potential,flaws and highlights like u kno urs.u're really an outsider looking in whereas with urself u're an insider looking out
mu suggestion is that u start looking at urself and ur life as having no limits.this may be difficult for u to do but it will help in u being able to wish urself well, be optimistic about ur life and achieve more than u thought u cud.
best of luck :)
You need to have a good weekend.
you may have a low self-esteem, and you may not feel like you deserve to be positive. sounds deep
Do you see other people as being better than you???If you are pessimistic about your life then do something to change the course of your perceived life,travel somewhere out of the ordinary,do whatever makes you happy,your not going to be around forever so act now.it's your life you need to make the most of it and your the only one that can do it....
im pretty much the same way. i find that if i spend a day for myself, facial, read a good book, just relax and watch some good movies, i feel alot better. just spend sometime doing fun things by yourself or with some friends/family to see how fun life can really be! =)
Perhaps you have low self esteem and reaching out to help others is your way of making yourself feel like you have value or contribute positively to life. It may also be a way of trying to create positive connections with others and helping to ensure that they like you, so you can bolster your own esteem through their perspective of you.
You are being a hyprocite with your self. you might want to consider getting some mental help.
No. It's just realizing your potential.

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