How do you cope with a manipulative person daily without being manipulated?
1.He said he was a hit man and murdered people for money to make himself look tuff.He would cry about it and said he didnt want to do it anymore and would give me different stories for months and what made it believeable was his two guns and a knife with dried blood on it.
2.He said he seen demons and there was this one main demon named beezlebub who wanted me as his deciple and I first I was skeptical but I believed him after I had him go to the priest and tell him what went on.He cried as he told the priest which made me think he was scarred whether it was in his head
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You've got to find a way out. This guy is twisted and could be dangerous..at the very least he has got some serious mental health issues. Is there a shelter or some other organisation you can go to?
It sounds to me like the problem is more than just manipulation. I would "get the heck out of Dodge" and keep on going. A child is at stake. Do you want this man raising your child? Will he be a good father? Will his cycle of lies keep on going? I would take a good look at the whole situation then make a decision. Ultimately it is your life and your child's life that need consideration. If you can't make a decision by yourself, seek counseling.
well i guess he thinks he has you just where he wants you,i would leave him,go to a womans shelter,it will give time to figure out what next,they will talk to u and give u different options ,and tell u how to start over with u and your baby,that is soon to come,living with someone that minipulates,is hard to deal with,and they will be able to minipulate you,so get out,and get strong,and learn to live on your own without him...good luck.
You already know now he is a liar. I wouldn't believe anything he says, and I would learn how to make myself self-reliant. If you're not taking classes, you might want to start...if you don't have a good job, find one...make some new friends, so you'll have the potential for another place to live.
He isn't right in the head hun...find a way out.
Sorry, I am easily manipulated by my husband and my daughter.It's their power over us in, making us feel guilty and weak.
You don't listen, you get away.
Whether any of this is true or lies, either one is horrible, and you need to get away. If you have doubts, think about your baby. Your child deserves a safe environment.
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