Could looking into someone's eyes becomes a fear?
First off, i have a fear of endless voids...I'm perpetually scared of say...This may be sad..But things such as in/ or during creation of a video game where you see the endless area which resides below the ground, or behind a wall not usually accessable...Anyway, i know eyes aren't truely endless...And yea, i know they are generally hollow...But...I can't seem to do it...There has only been about once that i can remeber that i truely looked someone in the eyes, and it was only for say, 5 seconds or so...I can glance at their face yes...But...Not their eyes...If you asked me what my BEST friends eye color was...I couldn't tell you...Could this be linked to my fear? Or maybe more of the way of extreme psychological discomfort...
Answer:
It could be, but a counselor would be better able to tell you that than the people here on FunQA.com. Whenever you're in a situation that you see a void, and the fear comes up, concentrate on the feeling of the chair or the ground beneath you and think about how you are rooted to that spot and nothing's going to move you - hold onto something solid next to you if necessary. Things that normally just bother someone become phobias when the person becomes fixated on them, so the best way to overcome them is to think thoughts that are just the opposite whenever the fear comes up.
As for your inability to look in people's eyes, there could be a dozen different reasons for that. It could be, as you said, that eyes seem like they're endless, and we always hear people talk about "getting lost in your eyes" and etc. But actually did you know that your eyes are filled with a clear liquid? So they really aren't voids at all. There could be other reasons why you can't look people in the eye though, but I don't know you so I would only be guessing if I said anything.
Keep it real.
P.S. You might be interested to know that fear of voids is called Kenophobia.
Its a two way street..U are afraid to expose yourself and show others who U really are...thats why U won't look them in their eyes....maybe because UR still trying to find yourself or whatever....BUT realize we are more than our physical bodies and communication is about 10% verbal and about 90% non-verbal energetic exchange.the Fear U have I can only tie to an ancroynym F.uture E.vents A.ppearing R. eal...don't be afraid to expose yourself and all of its faults and beauty all wrapped into one.
I've always had a problem with looking into someone's eyes. Don't know why, i just can't do it. I also have bipolar and social anxiety disorder.
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It could be, but a counselor would be better able to tell you that than the people here on FunQA.com. Whenever you're in a situation that you see a void, and the fear comes up, concentrate on the feeling of the chair or the ground beneath you and think about how you are rooted to that spot and nothing's going to move you - hold onto something solid next to you if necessary. Things that normally just bother someone become phobias when the person becomes fixated on them, so the best way to overcome them is to think thoughts that are just the opposite whenever the fear comes up.
As for your inability to look in people's eyes, there could be a dozen different reasons for that. It could be, as you said, that eyes seem like they're endless, and we always hear people talk about "getting lost in your eyes" and etc. But actually did you know that your eyes are filled with a clear liquid? So they really aren't voids at all. There could be other reasons why you can't look people in the eye though, but I don't know you so I would only be guessing if I said anything.
Keep it real.
P.S. You might be interested to know that fear of voids is called Kenophobia.
Its a two way street..U are afraid to expose yourself and show others who U really are...thats why U won't look them in their eyes....maybe because UR still trying to find yourself or whatever....BUT realize we are more than our physical bodies and communication is about 10% verbal and about 90% non-verbal energetic exchange.the Fear U have I can only tie to an ancroynym F.uture E.vents A.ppearing R. eal...don't be afraid to expose yourself and all of its faults and beauty all wrapped into one.
I've always had a problem with looking into someone's eyes. Don't know why, i just can't do it. I also have bipolar and social anxiety disorder.
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