Why can't I help but to be attracted to women in despair?
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What a woman won't give to have a knight in shining armor. It shows that you have a big heart and are compassionate. You see someone in pain, and you want to make them better, but you need to be careful that you don't give so much of yourself that you get hurt in the process. I think it is great that you want to protect women in despair, the world needs more kind souls like yourself.
Darwinian Design?
men tend to fix things. so maybe that's your issue.
because you like the ideal of trying to solve their prombles
Because you are a "savior". You want to save them and help them fix their problems. Just don't take their problems as yours. You could be setting yourself up for a lot of heart ache.
easier conquests, perhaps?
Kind knows kind. Water seeks its own level. Birds of a feather flocks together. Misery loves company.
Need I go on, or do you see that the one who is really in despair is you, Romeo?
men just seem to be that way its whats in you its that whole night in shining armor thing but its a good thing sometimes
Women in despair have low standards. I have a friend who is overweight and not that attractive. However, all of the sudden childless women in their late 20s/early 30s are all of the sudden hitting on him and yet he never really had a GF or anything before. The biological clock is a huge despair for many women.
YES you can, you can offer help and a listening ear maybe, but at these times they may be more vulnerable. Don't abuse that trust by using it to "mould" their thoughts and influence their actions. They need to be made aware of ALL options and consequences.
Men tend to like to be protectors.
Everyone wants to be needed,and it may seem easier to you to find someone that is in despair to need you. Build up your self esteem and yu will find you dont look for so many damsels in distress.
Because you are what they call empathic and you care deep inside about people. You feel that you can help them because you ARE better than those that hurt them, and you know it. No scientific theory can replace true concern and compassion for people. Those qualities are inherent in a mature and old soul. Unfortunately others look to a books label than inside for an explanation. Trust your own judgment. It's usually right. And remember karmic law. Put out good, and it amplifies back . Nothing wrong with reaping some good right ; )
you have whats commonly known as white night syndrome..its your way of rescuing the fair damsel in distress.
I have one thought to leave you with, never get involved with anyone whose worries/problems are greater than yours..this includes women in despair.
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