How can i become a narcissist ?

i really want to be a narcissist i know this is a disorder and this may sound very stupid, but can someone act like one/ and maybe become close to actually being one? i know someone who is and i want to be like that lol that person is so loved and a charmer big time. can someone explain to me how they think about themseles in order for them to act this way?

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You are right this is a disorder. This person you know may be a charmer but what about their relationships ? Do they have long standing relationships that they can maintain without sucking that person dry seeking attention. Try learning how to be a charmer, pleasant, happy, honest, and yourself. I will never understand why you would like to be a narcissist. A true narcissist may seem great on the outside but on the inside they are constantly seeking attention and once they find their prey they will drain them. Then they move on to the next and the next. It is a never ending cycle. The whole focus of their day is to have the attention on them, they will even get a charge out of negative attention. They have trouble maintaining long standing relationships, hate criticism and do not like people who will not give them the attention they feel they deserve, which cuts them off from very decent and likable people sometimes. Is there any quality of life to that ? You really need to rethink this.
Look in the mirror as much as you can even when you don't need to. Do not leave the house until you are perfectly groomed. When you do, make sure that everybody is paying attention to you because you are so perfect, especially other narcissists. They are your rivalries in the search for perfection. When you meet girls, you have to make sure that they worship you because of your perfect look, otherwise you r not a complete narcissist.
You can not become one, either you are or you are not one.
Loving a narcissist is, to me, a wasted effort. Having a secure sense of self, and sensitivity that aids them in being a caring person is not narcissism. It's benevolent. Narcissists have the inability to love; anyone but their self. They have no concern of the dynamics in which they function. Their strongest focus is on their self. Just be kind, helpful, considerate, accepting of difference, and not using you self as the gauge to which you compare everyone else is positive. Remember, the golden rule.
1st of all i wud like to tell u tht i myself is a psychologisat n u wnt believe tht how miserable it is to b a narsissistic u c.......a... the time u need to gain attention from odr ppl..ur personality becums self centered n so on u always want ppl around u n praising u ...u want ppl to praise ur belongings as welll..so its better tht u remain wht ur rather thn changing urself n thankGOD 4 wht he has gifted u with .......
Treat the world and people as if they are a toolbox from which you can draw. Act only in consideration with how the consequences will play out in your favor.
The term narcissism means love of oneself, and refers to the set of character traits concerned with self-admiration, self-centeredness and self-regard. The name was chosen by Sigmund Freud, from the Greek myth of Narcissus, who was doomed to fall in love with his own reflection in a pool of water.

While everyone is narcissistic to some degree, extreme narcissism can be highly dysfunctional, and is classified as a pathology called Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

Narcissism is a term first used in relation to human thought and behavior by the Austrian physician and psychiatrist Sigmund Freud.

Narcissism is a set of character traits concerned with self-admiration, self-centeredness and self-regard.

Everyone has some narcissistic traits. However, narcissism can also manifest in an extreme pathological form in some personality disorders such as Narcissistic Personality Disorder wherein the patient overestimates his abilities and has an excessive need for admiration and affirmation. This may be present to such a degree that it severely damages the person's ability to live a productive or happy life because the traits manifest as severe selfishness and disregard for the needs and feelings of others
Simply Put, Become obsessively obsessed with yourself. That is the definition of a narcissist. If you do it for long enough (21 days in a row) it becomes a habit. . . then people will start to know you as a narcissist!
that isnt smart at all

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